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I remember the very first video store I ever went to. It was Captain Video!* and it occupied the space next to CVS in a local mall that Peet's Coffee & Tea owns now. It was a pretty small place, with slanted shelves lined with empty video cases and little labels stuck on them that read "Betamax only" or "VHS only." My parents let my sister and I choose one movie for ourselves ("The Last Unicorn") while they argued back and forth over which one to rent for themselves (they ended up choosing "The Lion in Winter".) It never really occurred to me at the time, but choosing a movie and deciding when to watch it was something of a revolution for my family and many others. I only knew as the credits rolled and Mia Farrow started her awful, reedy singing that I was watching a movie at home because my sister and I felt like it, and it was pretty great.

The video store was a semi-permanent fixture of my childhood and adolescence from then on, although in very measured quantity, ever a great frustration to me. Captain Video! disappeared rather quickly (as did Betamax), but a Blockbuster showed up fairly quickly, and there was always a kind friend who had the latest thing and invited me over to watch it. I should say here that my parents are most decidedly NOT leave-the-tv-on-in-the-background people. Their relationship with video rentals was actively characterized by a wary antagonism lest videos eat up time marked out for other, more wholesome activities, and this idea persisted through my entire childhood. One summer on a balmy Cape Cod afternoon, for example, we were at the video store when another family with children about my age came in, their arms laden with tapes. My mother regarded them with active disgust and when they'd left, she said, "I bet they spent all weekend watching those and doing nothing else. I bet they didn't even talk to each other." I didn't reply. I just wished I could rent as many videos as I wanted to.

What I didn't realize was that video rental was a double edged sword. When I got into high school and friends started having driver's licenses and cars, video rentals were at the top of our lists of Fun Things To Do. After all, we could all scrounge up the $3 between us, and there was always the possibility of renting something our parents might disapprove of, an illicit but largely empty thrill. But what we didn't realize was that trips to the video store would tear friendships apart, or waste hours of valuable leisure time. I had friends with definite preferences and agendas, and nowhere was this more on display than in the video store.** There was an evening in high school where three of my friends and I spent an hour and a half at the La Jolla Blockbuster, arguing over what to watch. I can't remember what we picked in the end, or even watching it afterwards. All I remember was a looming sense of amazement that my friends were that stubborn and unwilling to compromise with one another. Renting videos with boyfriends was also a test: would he be pushy and rude, insisting on Die Hard or a horror movie that I had no interest in, or would he be polite and choose something I wanted to see, like an anime***? It was like a date at the movies, but with the possibility for judgment even greater because of the sheer amount of choice in front of us.

But for all of its shortcomings, I can't bring myself to regret all my time at the video store. I love Netflix streaming and DVD-by-mail, but nothing can compare with seeing the exact video/DVD you want and taking it immediately, the child-like, slightly narcissistic thrill of "I will watch this now because I chose it!". And like any business, getting to know the people who worked at our local Blockbuster store, was a treat, too. (Our favorite manager used to bring his dog in to work, an adorable little mutt who didn't mind me picking him up at all.) Even though the video store was an inherently commercial enterprise, it was still a part of our neighborhood. My son will grow up not knowing what this was like, and he will, no doubt, roll his eyes at me when I start to tell him. It's just weird to think that something that was such an integral part of the cultural landscape has almost vanished completely.

* According to my Mom, the owner of the shop actually had a Captain Video costume, but when pressed for details, she always claims not to remember. For the life of me, I can't remember one way or another.

** I'm sure it wasn't just me and my friends; I often think that video store employees must have overheard some epics endings to relationships brewing.

*** Blockbuster was also the avenue to some of my very first anime, although back then the notoriously violent and X-rated Urutsukudoji: Legend of the Overfiend was often shelved next to Unico: The Little Unicorn. I used to complain about the inappropriateness of this to the video store employees, with varying degrees of success.

Date: 2012-05-09 10:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] orichalcum.livejournal.com
Still traumatized by some of those video-choosing debates....twitch. Yes, there was fun in "I want it now," but OMG the drama. At least now those debates can happen actually in front of the tv/computer, and if the choice turns out to be terrible, there's an immediate fix.

Have you noticed Sneakers is on Netflix Streaming now? :)

Quotes mean sarcasm! :D

Date: 2012-05-10 02:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] retsuko.livejournal.com
Oh, my, yes. Those were some crazy mixed up "fun" times! In most cases, I can't remember what we ended up watching, just that there was endless debate. I'm sort of glad that phase of our lives has concluded.

As for Sneakers, squee! I will have to check it out sometime, mostly because I am remembering the moment when they use the Scrabble tiles to anagram See Tech Astronomy into Too Many Secrets with great fondness. Or the part where he has to move really slowly because of the room temperature device thing. :)
Edited Date: 2012-05-10 02:11 am (UTC)

Re: Quotes mean sarcasm! :D

Date: 2012-05-10 12:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] digitalemur.livejournal.com
Go watch it! It's still awesome.

Date: 2012-05-09 11:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rhiannon76.livejournal.com
In all fairness, Unico: The Little Unicorn was weirdly violent and sexual in its own way, so perhaps not that much of a contrast with the Overfiend. ;)

Your Cape Cod story reminded me of my childhood summers on Nantucket: there was NO TV at the Nantucket house. Part of that was that this was pre-cable, so you just couldn't get more than one or two channels out there, but it was also combined with a firm idea that Nantucket was special and we had much better things to do and ways to spend our time there than watching tv. In later years, as my grandparents became less active in old age, they did bring up a tv to watch rental videos and got satellite so that my grandfather could watch tennis tournaments. Now, of course, there's broadband internet and 70,000 cable channels and whatnot. I kind of missed the tv-less years the last few times I was at the house, though... [livejournal.com profile] innostrantsa and I spent a week there together in 2008 and never turned it on once.

Date: 2012-05-10 02:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] retsuko.livejournal.com
I don't remember much about Unico, except for the opening song (which made very little sense) and the dark princess... or that there was some princess who wore black. Was she the love interest? Well, it shows you what sort of impression the movie had on me.

My parents were enraged by my grandmother's inclination to watch the news at maximum volume during dinner. For the longest time, they refused to get cable until my uncle stepped in... but the TV is in the dining room, where there's not a lot of space to sit down and watch it. I don't see us watching it often in the future at this rate. :p

Date: 2012-05-09 11:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] innostrantsa.livejournal.com
Your story reminds me why I adore my video rental place so much and give it as much business as I can afford. Not only that, I appreciate that... my trips were much less fraught, when going with others (we tended to have an idea of what we wanted; also, my tastes are so catholic that there are very few things I won't try/watch.)

I won't lie, though-- I miss those heady days of Blockbuster, when they would just hand over Legend of the Overfiend or Devil Hunter Yohko without question if you had the cash monies.

Date: 2012-05-10 02:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] retsuko.livejournal.com
There's a supposedly awesome video rental place here in SD that specializes in hard to find, out of print stuff. I keep meaning to go over and check out their stock, but it's very far away from me, and so renting things isn't practical. I hope your place is staffed by people who know their stuff and care about movies. :)

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